Karen, sweetie pie, I'm so sorry. I apologize. I too was only trying to help people. I will forever more be your true friend and supporter if you will just forgive me please. Life is too short for us to get stressed out by this and trigger an IBS attack from it! That would be totally counterproductive, wouldn't it!
PS. Are you by any chance related to a Michael Mulvey in the New York area? He's my brother in law. His mother's name is Barbara and his sister's name is Pam and he has a brother in the Marines. Ring a bell at all? Every time I see your username I think of him and smile. It would be really cool if you were cousins or something!