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Jamie--
i know i just talked to you but then i read your post about why you're still single. you know what, Jamie, i know you're going to do just fine. you're one of the most lovely men i know and i imagine that only gets better when people are actually in the same room with you (as opposed to being online, ya know). i think you're quite handsome, too. so don't get discouraged too much. (which is difficult, i know!) as hokey as it sounds, it's just not "your time" yet and when it is you're going to be the happiest you've ever been! it's going to make all of this waiting seem like nothing.

as for the girl you kinda wish it hadn't ended with- ya never know what time will bring. it may work one day. or it may not. who knows!? but i have 2 of those guys in my past- one very distant past and one quite recent. the guy in my very distant past- well, he's now my best friend. i can't imagine dating him (for which his wife may be glad!), not at all (at all!) but i can't imagine my life without him. he's the best man i know. the other one, the recent one, i kept kicking myself for my part in the breakup. well, i always try to remind myself that there's something better in store- and there almost always is. at least, that's how it's been doing so far in my life. i've always found someone so much better than the last- especially when i thought " but how can the universe top THIS guy??!" the universe always had- just not on my timeline.

anyway, i just wanted to say you're a really great guy. i hope you meet "her" soon, whomever she is, but in the meantime, there's always Foxy Boxing.

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