....last night when hubby said I needed to get over my shyness.....I went outside and put some more paint on the house (almost done)....as I was painting all these things I've heard all my life started going through my head and tears were rolling down my face as I was painting.....
Things like: "don't mind her...she's real shy" "you shouldn't wear bright colors with your reddish hair" "she has big calves like me" "she's going through that chubby stage" "quit crying" "toughen up" etc., etc......