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Hi Nugget,

We have been married for 36 years. I think we all go through those feelings you are experiencing now. You just want a little more romance in your marriage. Sometimes after years of marriage the situation changes from romance to your husband being your best friend. We are in that stage and I think it is the best stage of our marriage. We have so much fun and laugh a lot. We write notes to each other and he e-mails me from work and we love joking around. This may sound weird to you, but, when we are out doing yardwork and our dog is with us and we are laughing that is more romantic to me than when we first met and were always gazing into each others eyes and saying all that mushy stuff!!!!

My son leaves notes to his wife on food in the fridge. Also when he is feeling bad she brings home a balloon. I think that is a cute idea.

Our romantic dinner is when I grill chicken for me and steak for him with new potatoes and green beans. Most of the time we eat in front of the TV...romantic, huh.... but it doesn't matter as long as we are together.

I don't know what you are worried about, it sounds like you have a great marriage and a wonderful husband. Cherish it.

Barbie

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