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Re: Ashley!
      05/26/04 10:48 AM
TommyNY

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I have to say that all of these posts have been very interesting to read over the past few days. Everyone has given some really good advice. In the end, it comes down to you. People can give you all the advice in the world, some of it maybe good, some maybe bad. The onnly person who truly knows the situation the best is you. Have confidence in yourslef and your ability to assess the relationship. I know its easier said than done. I received tons of advice in my last relationship, some solicited others weren't. It still ended even with following some of the advice. Actually, your situation was quite similar to mine. I wanted a committment, I wanted marriage in a few years yet she wasn't ready for that. I had to let her go. Was it hard? Yes it was. I hate the cliche "If it was meant to be then it wil be" but I honestly think that is the truth. It takes two people to make a relationship work. One person trying will not make a relationship successful. You both have to want it. There has to be concessions made on both ends. Love is a tricky thing and makes people do things they wouldn't normally do with a clear mind. But never sacrifice who you are as an individual for someone else.

I hope it all works out for you. I really do. If it doesn't you will survive. Yes, being single can be tough. I know, I have been single for 2 years now. But its not all bad and it gives you time to know what you want and what don't want. You can listen to us all but in the end you have to go with your heart and what it tells you.

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* AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 05:53 PM
* Ashley! I'm sorry!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 08:24 AM
* Amanda's Advice
JBI
05/26/04 09:17 AM
* Re: Amanda's Advice
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:31 AM
* Right On, Amanda!
Bevvy
05/26/04 09:36 AM
* Re: Right On, Amanda!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:41 AM
* thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 08:47 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 10:33 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:27 PM
* Ashley
StephS
05/25/04 09:34 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 04:28 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:01 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 06:06 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:24 AM
* update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 07:03 AM
* Re: update
chinagrl
05/25/04 10:37 AM
* Re: update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:32 PM
* Re: update (Good For You Ashley)
Dimples
05/25/04 01:58 PM
* Re: update
JuLee
05/25/04 01:25 PM
* julee
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 03:50 PM
* Re: julee
JuLee
05/25/04 06:03 PM
* Re: update
bttrfly08
05/25/04 08:38 AM
* Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
Dimples
05/25/04 08:28 AM
* Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
Bevvy
05/25/04 01:21 AM
* Re: Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:00 AM
* Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 06:08 PM
* Re: Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 09:00 PM
* Re: Ashley!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 08:21 AM
* Re: Ashley!
TommyNY
05/26/04 10:48 AM
* Re: Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 09:08 PM
* Ashely how are things going for you now?
StephS
05/25/04 09:31 PM
* Answers for you steph......
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 10:10 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
JBI
05/24/04 07:30 PM
* Jamie---VERY well put. What would this board do without you? -nt-
Kandee
05/25/04 09:43 AM
* RE: Needing help with boyfriend problems: JAMIE, I HAVE TO COMMEND YOU
Dimples
05/25/04 04:05 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 07:50 PM
* Jamie you are so sweet! - nt
Linz
05/24/04 07:34 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Linz
05/24/04 06:11 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 06:19 PM
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Linz
05/24/04 06:23 PM
* I'm going to be Negative Nelly
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05/24/04 09:10 PM

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