First off, Thank you for all of support steph!
We have started talking, and things aren't akward anymore. I don't think we will be able to reach a compromise about living together anytime soon, but at least we are on better terms. I figured I could get mad and be angry for our last few days together, or I could realize this is out of my hands and start finding ways to work not living together.
So things are going better, we're focusing now on how we will make this work. I don't want him focusing all summer on how mean and angry I was before I left. I want him to remember good things about me. One good thing is that I feel less attacked, it still hurts, but I don't think he did it out of spite.
We have been dating for about 2 yrs now, and living together for about 1. We were friends for the last five years however. He's older than I am (he's 24, I'm 22), and was my supervisor at my first job in college. So we have known each other much longer.
And to answer your other question, we will be able to see each other this summer. It will be an eight hour drive, but he's planning to come and visit, and I'm planning a visit, and we will hopefully be able to meet in NYC for a few weekends beause that is about halfway. We won't be able to see each other as often as we'd like, and lengths are all dependent on our jobs but at least its only until the end of August.
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