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I'm going to be Negative Nelly
      05/24/04 09:10 PM
chinagrl

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Since I'm only getting one side of this, I could be totally wrong, but it sounds like he's not as committed as you are. 20 minutes is nothing. I drive 45 minutes in rush hour to school (and then don't leave, cause I'll never get a parking spot again). I just do exactly what was suggested between classes, some reading, go to the gym, get a drink.

It seems like he might want some space for some other reasons and he's trying to be gentle about it. Why is it so important to him that you live apart? Maybe he's viewing this as an opportunity to get some space.

And if he's looking for excuses, freaking out is the worst thing you can do. It's just another excuse.

I'd wait a little bit until you're both calm and try and have a discussion about what the real issues at stake are here.

I hope I'm wrong.

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Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 05:53 PM
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05/25/04 08:24 AM
* Amanda's Advice
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05/26/04 09:31 AM
* Right On, Amanda!
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05/26/04 09:36 AM
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* thanks amandapanda!!
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05/25/04 10:33 AM
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05/25/04 12:27 PM
* Ashley
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05/25/04 09:34 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
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05/25/04 04:28 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
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05/25/04 06:01 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
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05/25/04 06:06 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
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05/25/04 06:24 AM
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05/25/04 07:03 AM
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05/25/04 10:37 AM
* Re: update
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05/25/04 12:32 PM
* Re: update (Good For You Ashley)
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05/25/04 01:58 PM
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05/25/04 01:25 PM
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05/25/04 03:50 PM
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05/25/04 06:03 PM
* Re: update
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05/25/04 08:38 AM
* Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
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05/25/04 08:28 AM
* Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
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05/25/04 01:21 AM
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05/25/04 06:00 AM
* Ashley!
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05/25/04 06:08 PM
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05/25/04 09:00 PM
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05/26/04 08:21 AM
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05/26/04 10:48 AM
* Re: Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 09:08 PM
* Ashely how are things going for you now?
StephS
05/25/04 09:31 PM
* Answers for you steph......
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05/25/04 10:10 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
JBI
05/24/04 07:30 PM
* Jamie---VERY well put. What would this board do without you? -nt-
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05/25/04 09:43 AM
* RE: Needing help with boyfriend problems: JAMIE, I HAVE TO COMMEND YOU
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05/25/04 04:05 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 07:50 PM
* Jamie you are so sweet! - nt
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05/24/04 07:34 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Linz
05/24/04 06:11 PM
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05/24/04 06:19 PM
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05/24/04 06:23 PM
* I'm going to be Negative Nelly
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05/24/04 09:10 PM

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