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Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
      05/24/04 07:50 PM
Dr. Spice Yamin

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yeah jamie.. that was an amazing post!! Thank you so much for your help.

As for the part about being engaged, its not necessary in any way, but I feel like we would be moving backwards in our relationship, and there is no signs pointing to moving forward. Its really bothering me alot. we have lived together for a year already. I feel like he's saying. ok maybe in three years our relationship can go back to how it was right now and for the past year.

I totally realize that I shouldn't freak out on him and I'm just keeping quiet for now until I can compose myself. I have however made it quite known that I want to be able to go to sleep with him every night and that I want him to be there for me. He is fully aware of these factors, he is just an incredibly stubborn guy. I don't want him there because i'm scared to be alone, I want him there because I know we are going to be insanely busy and that any chance I get with him with be very minimal. knowing that I can come home after a long day and have him there is what I want.

he seriously thinks i'm out of line though. he feels as though there is no reason why we can't just be with each other on the weekends, which is like a stab in the heart. I feel like if he loved me as much as he says he does there would be no question about it. we'd try to make it work. He isnt' even attempting to make things work as of yet.. although perhaps because I went nuts on him earlier. I couldnt' help it though because I felt so attacked and hurt. But I will definitly think better of it next time.

I'm not scared of falling in love and giving my all. I've been hurt before and never learned my lesson. But I usually end up getting burned because of it. I am finally becoming worried about giving to much to someone who won't give much in return. No matter how much I love him, if I spend my life giving in, I'll eventually end up resenting him and I don't want that to ever be the case.

thanks so much for your help jamie. I will definitly utilize your ideas!

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* AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 05:53 PM
* Ashley! I'm sorry!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 08:24 AM
* Amanda's Advice
JBI
05/26/04 09:17 AM
* Re: Amanda's Advice
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:31 AM
* Right On, Amanda!
Bevvy
05/26/04 09:36 AM
* Re: Right On, Amanda!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 09:41 AM
* thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 08:47 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/25/04 10:33 AM
* Re: thanks amandapanda!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:27 PM
* Ashley
StephS
05/25/04 09:34 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 04:28 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:01 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dimples
05/25/04 06:06 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems! HI ASHLEY!!!!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:24 AM
* update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 07:03 AM
* Re: update
chinagrl
05/25/04 10:37 AM
* Re: update
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 12:32 PM
* Re: update (Good For You Ashley)
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05/25/04 01:58 PM
* Re: update
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05/25/04 01:25 PM
* julee
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 03:50 PM
* Re: julee
JuLee
05/25/04 06:03 PM
* Re: update
bttrfly08
05/25/04 08:38 AM
* Re: update ( You Tried Ashley!!)
Dimples
05/25/04 08:28 AM
* Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
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05/25/04 01:21 AM
* Re: Does This Ever Sound Familiar, Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 06:00 AM
* Ashley!
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05/25/04 06:08 PM
* Re: Ashley!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 09:00 PM
* Re: Ashley!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
05/26/04 08:21 AM
* Re: Ashley!
TommyNY
05/26/04 10:48 AM
* Re: Ashley!
Linz
05/25/04 09:08 PM
* Ashely how are things going for you now?
StephS
05/25/04 09:31 PM
* Answers for you steph......
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/25/04 10:10 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
JBI
05/24/04 07:30 PM
* Jamie---VERY well put. What would this board do without you? -nt-
Kandee
05/25/04 09:43 AM
* RE: Needing help with boyfriend problems: JAMIE, I HAVE TO COMMEND YOU
Dimples
05/25/04 04:05 AM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 07:50 PM
* Jamie you are so sweet! - nt
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05/24/04 07:34 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Linz
05/24/04 06:11 PM
* Re: AmandaPanda.. and any others that want to help with boy problems!
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/24/04 06:19 PM
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05/24/04 06:23 PM
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05/24/04 09:10 PM

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