I totally agree-when you have kids it is really tough to work fulltime and give them the time they need. I have a son with learning problems. He is a smart kid and the sweetest child I have ever known, but now is ready to enter junior high and struggling with the fact that he won't be in the same classes as his friends, and thinks the classes he has to take are for stupid kids. Ugh, I hate it when they hurt-I wish I could take the pain for him! I'm sure you understand with ADHD.