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Scared out of my mind!!!
      01/13/04 12:22 PM
Lana_Marie

Reged: 01/31/03
Posts: 1968
Loc: Saskatchewan. Canada

So I am 22 weeks pregnant and seriously I am having a breakdown over here!

I am absolutely terrified of being a mom! My husband and I even planned this baby and I am so scared. My sister has a baby and he is only 6 weeks old and he cries all the time....and I am terrified that I am not going to be able to handle this.

I worry that I am not ready to be a mom!

I keep thinking what if I made a mistake and what if I can't handle the pressure of doing it by myself all day while Don's at work....

EEEKK! Seriously I am freaking out!!

Is this normal or I am in for a big surprise???

It just makes me crazy how instead of people saying "Oh congratulation" they say "Oh this will change your life...you are in for a big surprise??" HUH? What is that supposed to mean?

I am 24 years old and have been on my own since I was 18...I think I have a pretty good outlook on life and what it's all about.

I know for a fact I am more ready for children then some of the "kids" out there who are having children!!!

Please someone tell me this is perfectly normal to go through a breakdown like this!!! That it is just hormones and I am gonna be ok!

I am also scared that I will be like my mom!! I am terrified of this! I pray that I will not be like her!

Oh and the labour...welll god! Don't even get me started on how scared I am of that...honestly! Terrified!! Urrggh!! Only 4 more months!!!

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Lana_Marie
Proud Mommy to Bentley Taylor
Born May 12, 2004 9lbs, 3oz



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Lana_Marie
01/13/04 12:22 PM
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marjo
01/24/04 12:06 PM
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Yoda (formerly Hans)
01/13/04 07:57 PM
* Thank you everyone!
Lana_Marie
01/14/04 06:21 AM
* Those Damn Hormones!
Bevvy
01/14/04 08:37 AM
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joanmarie
01/13/04 05:05 PM
* You'll Do Wonderfully
Bevvy
01/13/04 05:09 PM
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joanmarie
01/13/04 05:18 PM
* What?!?
Bevvy
01/13/04 07:54 PM
* Whoa!
Bevvy
01/13/04 04:48 PM
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torbetta
01/13/04 01:55 PM
* One more thing about labor
torbetta
01/13/04 02:33 PM
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01/13/04 05:10 PM
* Wait a minute --
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01/13/04 04:51 PM
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01/13/04 12:29 PM
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01/13/04 12:49 PM
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01/13/04 01:07 PM
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01/13/04 02:41 PM
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01/13/04 05:44 PM
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