I took no offense to your post, Windchimes. Such is the nature of these forums/chats...it is very easy to get your feelings hurt. It is impersonal and not at all like talking with someone in person where more comes into play. It is easy for others to misconstrue what you are trying to say and "attack".
I don't think aperson seemed to be bothered by your post. I think if she was she would let you know. Really, it only concerns her, anyway.
So, hang around, your are fun! Geri (and that is my real name )