Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: Need Advice! Have you ever cheated on or thought about cheating on your spouse?

NO NO NO NO NO!!!

Think about it sweetheart. Please think long and hard about it. Think about how you are feeling, how your husband is feeling and how both of you would feel should you go through with it and if / when your husband finds out.

It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of stress. It is stressful to move, to buy a house, to have a young child, and to have to live with your parents. Been there, done all of it with the exception of the child. We lived with my in-laws for over a year. The stress is probably another reason you are looking for this escape from your current situation.

Please don't do anything hasty! Think how you would feel if your husband was cheating on you and you found out? I'd want to die. Or throw up, whichever was quicker. I think you need to talk to your husband about how you're feeling about your relationship. Even if you leave him a note that you need to talk and set a time for the two of you alone.

Please don't do anything you may regret, for you and your son's sake too.

If you need to chat privately email me at cassandraelvish @yahoo.com (take out the space)

Hugs, all the best with this difficult decision...

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Cassandra

Live like there's no tomorrow. Love like you've never loved before.

IBS A 20+ years, Chronic Migraines, Chiari Malformation (decompressed June 22, 2010), Brachial Neuritis, and ??? the list just keeps growing, but I'm still shiny side up!

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