I totally agree.when it's on my turf i'm in control. I was so worried last weekend about having an attack while the place was packed and I was totally fine.I was even worried that the bathrooms would be occupied when I really needed them and guess what?They hardly were used!I don't know what these people were doing but hardly anyone used the washroom.Of course the boys all be outside cause they are too lazy to go in but the girls?Wish I didn't have to worry about it!
You'll have a good time and make hubby happy too.Thats what I worry about the most.He is totally a social butterfly and I love to be alone.So since I have IBS and it keeps us from going out, I figure if we bring the people to us then he gets his socialization.I hope he is as happy as I think he is......
Have fun and try to relax.If your friends are anything like mine, they will take over and do all the work for you!
Happy BBQ!!!!!
-------------------- IBS-D since 1999...mostly stable..i do cheat too.Bad me.