I know I shouldn't be nervous about the BBQ my husband and I are throwing tomorrow at our cabin....it will be a lot of fun....but I'm still nervous about whether or not my IBS-D will play fair tomorrow with all the people coming, etc. We haven't given a specific time...we've just said "come between noon and dark and we'll throw a burger on when you get here." It's going to be real relaxed atmosphere, etc. But my nerves still get the best of me in situations like this. Ya know? The people who are coming are all friends of ours and people we work with, but I'm still nervous. I keep thinking...am I forgetting anything, hope the weather is nice, hope my tummy cooperates, hope everyone has a good time, hope the food is good, etc. Ya know what I mean. Wish I could just relax about it.