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OK....here's the deal.....my husband came home night before last and said...."you know that BBQ we've been wanting to have? How about this weekend?" I said OK...but that doesn't give much time for planning. He told me I was making it too difficult...all we need to do is let some friends know we are going to be at our cabin and if they want to come up feel free to do so and we'll put some hamburgers on the grill when they get there. Well, our list of people has grown to over 25 people....of course, not all will be able to attend. We bought "supplies" last night before he went back up to work at our mountain property. He won't be home until Friday and we are planning on having this BBQ Saturday. So I've got to figure out how much hamburger to buy...make it into patties, etc. Get everything ready, etc. I've also got to think about what I can take for me, too. But the biggest dilemma is that I have given everyone that I work with a map to our cabin and told them to come on up this Saturday for our BBQ....but there are a handfull of co-workers I don't want to invite....specifically one gal...I don't want her to see that I gave everyone but her and a few others a map. What do I do if she finds out? How do I not invite her? She would ruin the whole fun of the get-together. Ya know?

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