I have often told my husband if he didn't pick up the slack I'd quit doing his laundry. The problem is subtle just doesn't work with men. You basically have to scream it in their face and then they only hear half of it anyway!
Mens idea of clean is soooooo different. Same prob. I was recouping from surgery and the bathroom went for the sh...s.(can i say that?) Anyway I finally had enough and just did it myself.
The best way to get even though is to find the one thing they hate the most.re:husband hates it when the sink has gunge in it. So when I'm mad.....I leave it.
It doesn't take him long to get the hint. Even though gunge drives me crazy too, it's a sacrifice I'm willing to make.
Good luck with you other half!!!
-------------------- IBS-D since 1999...mostly stable..i do cheat too.Bad me.