ya why bother save your breath. Mine always says I'll help with the meals I know you get tired of eating everything the same thing but that 1 day in 2 months that I don't have a clue what to eat or want I going to have. He throws a fit like a 2 year and says we can't even talk about this! I have even made folders with recipes in them and label them he can't pick one up. Or he says we have chicken well duh! Not what can we make with it all I can see is this frozen piece of chiken! WHATEVER! So I just always eat what I am tried of just to keep peace! He is so stubborn. He can rember everything for work and all his clubs but I ask him to ge the paper oh I forgot. I am glad I am not alone on this. Thanks for letting me vent to! Hope you feel better! emmasmom ibs-c Gas