I hear ya I say the cat needs clean up or take out the trash but I did it yesterday! I am like what ever I did the dishes and laundry yesterday to and figured out super as you know can be a chore. But if he wants to mow the yard or wash the 4-wheeler he always has time!! Hes not as romantic as he was when we first meet either. I plan the time we spend toghther now and I don't think thats fair. MEN! engouh said. emmasmom ibs-c gas