Just a quick two cents...I know you have been talking about getting pregnant recently...make sure your marriage is stable enough first. Kids are not an answer to "fix" an unhappy marriage. If anything your realtionship needs to be rock solid beforehand because those lovely little children demand alot of your time and energy. I hope that I am not overstepping any boundries by saying this. It just seems like your not real happy right now in your relationship. Hang in there!