Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: I have a lot going on..

I am new to the board. I was scrolling down and saw yours and clicked. I was taken back by all that you've been through. I am so sorry. My husband will be away for three weeks. He just left yesterday. I was thinking about how much I miss him already. And then I read about your husband, and now I feel selfish for being so petty. My husband is healthy, just away for a short time. But you, you have to deal with uncertainty helplessness and fear. And that makes me feel for you. Life can be so overwhelming sometimes. When something like this happens we all wonder why it has to be. I know my story probably isn't helping but these were my initial thoughts. Nothing I say with take the pain away but maybe ease it because I and all the others who replied are thinking about you. After this passes(as another person who replied said it would) you will definately look back and say 'my goodness, I made it'. Time flys by and before you know it you have entered another part of your life. The storm is over and then you will appreciate the sunshine more. Just take everything day by day. Literally day by day. That might make things easier. To plan for the future or look back with only increase your fear and helplessness. Take care!!!

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