Re: I have a lot going on..
12/07/03 07:56 AM
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Kerrie,
You DO have a lot going on. Keep that in mind. A lot of the things taking place are out of your control--they're externals. Try to keep focused on what IS in your control.
Being so sick and unable to work on and off the past four months...not being able to be a wife for my husband...I had to focus on taking care of myself because that was the only thing I could control. I can't control being sick. I can't control the fact that I was too exhausted to get out of bed so the house became a mess and my husband had to do everything. I felt so helpless! I felt like I would never get better. I was scared my hubby would divorce me...we've been married just over a year and I'm always sick. I was terrified.
Then it occured to me that I can pray, drink lots of fluids, sleep when I need to, miss work to rest, eat properly, learn to say no, de-stress, and stuff like that. These things ARE in my control. I know our situations are different...but I hope that sharing this with you will at least give you something to focus on.
Please keep in touch and let us know if there is anything we can do.
Love,
Ruchie
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