You're not alone with this one. My husband is very understanding when this happens. Generally, if IBS gets to bothering me, I rely on other tactics, if ya know what I mean . IBS gives us creative license when it comes to these types of issues. It's okay to make up new things to do that are fun for both and don't aggravate your IBS.
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If you're not dead, you've still got time.