Good advice. I'm trying to focus on other aspects of my life right now. Since I know there is nothing I can do for at least a few weeks, no sense obsessing over it. It will be tough, but I'm trying to distract myself as much as possible.
That's funny about the planning. I've already done the "if I get pregnant this month, this will be the due date, if next month..." And I think about when/how we'll tell our families. Nobody knows we're even trying. We just finished painting one of our bedrooms...bright blue It will hopefully be a nursery someday. The hard part is trying to plan other stuff. When I do get pregnant I will probably have horrible morning sickness. All of the women in my family do. Basically all day sickness for 3 months. So it's hard to plan other stuff in my life knowing that I might be super sick in a couple months. I guess I just have to go on with my life and deal with things as they come.
I've still been having funky feelings/pain on my right side...the side that had the larger follicles. I'm guessing it's not actual ovulation. We're not "trying" but we're not "not trying" either. So, if something happens great, if not, no upset. I don't expect anything. Maybe next month. For now I'll focus on my relationhsip with DH, being healthy, and fully recovering from surgery:) Maybe my body wasn't quite ready for a baby. And I ordered the preseed this morning. Hopefully that will help!
-------------------- ~Mary
Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.