I hope everything turns out okay with the cyst, and I'm so glad that you're feeling better on the Effexor! I was actually thinking about you and was about to post asking how you were doing when you posted your update about going back on Effexor.
I'm glad your husband also seems to be doing a bit better -- I think it can be very frustrating to be the "healthy" person and feel so helpless over not being able to really understand or help out the person who's not doing well. I know there are times when I feel like my husband and I are on different sides of a ten-foot brick wall.
Hope you enjoy your long weekend!
-------------------- jen
"It's one of the most serious things that can possibly happen to one in a battle -- to get one's head cut off." -- LC