Michele! I can't believe your doctor talked to your boss about your health situation? Hasn't he heard of confidentiality?!!!
I really hope they figure out what's going on with you. With all the problems you are describing it sounds to me like it might be an autoimmune thing... I really wish I could tell you what it is... I'll try to do some research as I am involved in a support group for an autoimmune paralysis disease. Could be that someone has heard of something.