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      06/12/06 03:46 PM
Lyndsey

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Loc: Bay Area, CA

ask for full custody, if you don't, at least you know you tried, i know here, you have to go through mediation first, then if you can't resolve anything, then you have to go to court. i don't know how it is over there. look strong, but not overbareing...don't talk down about him too much in the meidation/court...you have to prove that your daughter is better with you....keep in mind it's both your daughter, so regaurd to her as "our daughter" he'll probably pull the "she doens't want me in her life" or something, or you are trying to get back at him...just keep saying you want your guys' daughter's best interest in mind, and thats all you care about. that's the most important.

it's disgusting that your husband is sleeping with the girl now...but obviously he doens't want to repair what you guys have, so i say f*ck em....unfortunatly , that is too easy for me to say...i'll say screw you to anyone that doens't want me...which makes fights with me kinda bad...because i always end up acting like i can do better, or don't need you at all..which puts it into dangerous zones...but work on yourself, and your daughter, and when he has time with your daughter, go out with friends, get a drink (a drink...not drinks..lol) see a movie, when the battle between my daughter's father and i started i was a wreck, our situation was really different, he wasn't around for about 2 years, then slammed me with wanting 50% custody...idiot, anyway...i was a mess because i was use to having her around so much, slowly i started going out with friends, i joined a gym, i eventually started to work at as a personal trainer, met a whole bunch of people who really reminded me of a good person i am...and i met mike...we've had difficulties in the past, but we've been working on them...but my crazy road, became a little less windey, and more smooth. It was hard as hell at first to let go of the anger toward her father...i still hate him...and the guilt of a "single mom" though i'm married, and everything, it's still not the "ideal" life i wanted to give my daughter. but they know early whats bad and whats good..etc..and she's so mommy's little girl...she hardly sees her dad, his mom takes care of her during visits, which sickens me that he doen'st really step up....but she knows whats ghetto and blah and whats good

best of luck to you girl sorry you have to deal with it though

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* The game has changed.
_Willow
06/10/06 02:07 PM
* Hey there Tough Cookie
bubbagirl
06/12/06 07:21 PM
* He doens't care
_Willow
06/12/06 02:19 PM
* shannon
AmandaPanda, J.D.
06/12/06 03:57 PM
* I'm recording it all
_Willow
06/12/06 09:53 PM
* Smart thinking. That's gonna help you a lot. *nt
hohoyumyum
06/13/06 12:12 PM
* Why are you doing his laundry?!?!-nt
epa_ginger
06/12/06 02:46 PM
* I'd be burning his clothes if I were you!! n/t
Natalie1985
06/12/06 02:46 PM
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asianrei
06/12/06 10:39 AM
* It's not a Canadian thing...
hohoyumyum
06/13/06 12:21 PM
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Gracie
06/12/06 05:36 PM
* ugh
ChristineM
06/11/06 04:05 PM
* Re: ugh
michele
06/12/06 10:07 AM
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Stephie
06/11/06 11:10 AM
* Time to call another lunch
Nelly
06/11/06 07:14 AM
* Re: The game has changed.
Gracie
06/10/06 10:37 PM
* no, because we're not legally separated yet.
_Willow
06/10/06 11:00 PM
* Okay, in light of new information...
hohoyumyum
06/10/06 08:19 PM
* Now...do you mean grill him, on a barbecue?
_Willow
06/10/06 10:59 PM
* Have you ever seen "Fried Green Tomatoes?" There's some killin' grillin' in that movie. *nt
hohoyumyum
06/12/06 03:19 PM
* Re: Now...do you mean grill him, on a barbecue?
Portageegal
06/11/06 08:14 AM
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Double J
06/10/06 07:29 PM
* What an immature idiot!
Shane_Marr
06/10/06 07:10 PM
* LOL thanks Shane...I basically did say that.
_Willow
06/10/06 10:55 PM
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Janey
06/10/06 07:10 PM
* I'm booked in to see a lawyer Monday, and I booked last Monday.
_Willow
06/10/06 10:56 PM
* Re: I'm booked in to see a lawyer Monday, and I booked last Monday.
Janey
06/11/06 07:14 AM
* Oh, and then...to add insult to injury
_Willow
06/10/06 03:51 PM
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Snorkie
06/10/06 03:13 PM
* you kidding? I need em!! ((()))
_Willow
06/10/06 03:50 PM
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JLL24
06/10/06 02:44 PM
* I agree
Portageegal
06/10/06 05:10 PM
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Dr. Spice Yamin
06/10/06 02:40 PM
* Oh, yes he did! And, knowing where you come from
_Willow
06/10/06 03:49 PM
* courts wont give you stuff unless you ask...
Lyndsey
06/12/06 03:46 PM
* Re: Oh, yes he did! And, knowing where you come from
Dr. Spice Yamin
06/10/06 05:03 PM

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