I know the best scenario for me and my daughter is to stick it out till Sept so that we don't end up on the street because we can't support ourselves, my family can't support me and my husband can't support us or himself.
A few years ago, while I was on maternity leave from work and making literally next to nothing per month, Trevor drove drunk in the company vehicle...and potentially smashed up a neighbor's car, and didn't even remember. He could have chosen not to tell me, but he did, and it was something that could have lost him his job.
It was also something he could have not told anyone and nobody would have been the wiser. It was a turning point in our lives because he did the good, right and honest thing, even though we were terrified of what would happen.
he lost a company car because of it,and had to go buy a new vehicle...He very well could have lost his job, but he absolutely HAD to be honest. That's why I don't worry about him lying. I know you guys didn't know this, so there's my reason-one of many-that I don't think this is some big scam and why he's leaving me. In the end, he even told the neighbor, who thought Trevor was nuts, because that dent had been there forever. He didn't even DO anything, after all.