Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. It sounds like it was very hard for you to go through but that you've dealt with it and have moved on.
That shelf idea is super. The more that I think about it, I'm not sure that either of them even deserve to be put on the shelf. They were never as close to me as your friend was.
True about the wedding.
Thanks for your kind words about me being personable. I take friendships super seriously and have a hard time letting them end. But I think that it's time to gve up on these two and that's that. Like you, maybe I'll get word from ne of them some day. Who knows!