I don't know about pro. I think I get more and more nervous with every baby. This one has already caused a lot of stresses that has been fun. We have a lot of decisions to make and not a lot of options. Maybe we are just making the whole thing complicated. We may have to get creative to find a place for this baby to sleep. I guess it's a good thing we have 7+ months left. Oh and speaking of physical changes, you should see me. I know this is #4 but I already look like I'm 12 weeks or more pg. I actually look pg and it scares me.