Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | thoughts from someone who knows how it feels.....

hey....i cant help but feel bad, and feel for you...i've been a a cup all my life (expect for now i'm not becuase pregnant..) but i've been teased....i've been self consious, i wear strickly padded bras...because our idea of a beautiful body also goes with beautiful breasts...which some of us are not lucky enough to have..or unlucky depending on who you talk to...

after breastfeeding my daughter, my boobs were saggy...and small...ugly combo to me...i had a friend who had a son, and on the same boat...so i felt more impowered being able to joke. but not being intimate with someone for a long time, i didn't care, until i started to be again with guys...i wouldn't take off my bra, i told them i am really consious about my boobs and they were ok with it. Mike ive not had that problem, i told him from the start i hate my chest...he tells me i'm beautiful no matter what...but i cover them constantly...

to make it worse..my nipples are bigger, but not my boobs....which makes me uncomfortable about them too, becuase all these girls have perfect boobs and nipples...i have neither....

i think writing it down for your doc would be a good idea...most doctors are compassionate people, who understand not feeling good in the body you were given.

i know people will say love your body, which yes, you should, but i understad CONPLETELY, i hate my boobs..i'm embarassed about their disfunctions too. guys don't always care about it. i mean they do...they'll say they dont, but they do, but i've felt it easier on me to joke about it, at work a girl accedently elbowed me in the boob, she was like OH MY GOD I"M SO SORRY! i said "oh, odn't worry, its mostly padding anyway, i didn't even feel it!!" which opend the door to her telling me that she got implants a few years ago, she went from a bad bad a cup to a b-c cup that she loves them, becuase they just look natural, not huge, but like a woman should feel, so one day i want to get mine done too, becasue it is a huge feminine part of a woman!!

but honestly...i think if you are somewhat flat too..i've seen some sexy women who just work it...look at gwen stephani (before she got all rap-like) she's damn sexy, and very very small, she flaunts her little lady lumps!! haha...

but jaime...if there is anyone that would understand the pain it can cause....it's me....like i said, with mike i told him i hated my boobs, and that i wore padded bras, and that what you see isnt' completely what you get, he gives me a hard time sometimes, because i give myself a hard time, but i do feel accepted and beautiful with him!

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