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      03/07/06 02:13 PM
AmandaM

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I definitely think you are heading in the right direction by starting to open up to others about your fears/concerns. Even if it is to your anonymous friends here, it's a huge step and I think you're very brave to do it. I applaud you!!

With that being said, I know that you can tell your doctor. It's harder to discuss sensitive issues face to face with someone, especially about our bodies because it is such a tender subject. But just remember, that doctors hear and see this stuff all the time. I am sure your doctor will handle this with the utmost professionalism and understanding and probably talk about different options that you can pursue.

One of my best friends had inverted nipples..where her nipples were turned inwards. They never hardened, if you will. This set her off about all the same insecurities you are talking about. She finally (at the age of 27) went to a plastic surgeon and had them fixed. She is so happy she did it and feels no regret. So, if you decide to go the plastic surgery route, that's great! I know a few girls with fake ones and they love them. You gotta do what will help you feel better and help you learn to love yourself.

It's not silly that you are so upset about this. I think as women, we are so conscious of all our imperfections and we blow them out of proportion in our heads..our boob size, our stomachs, our thighs, everything becomes imperfect when subjected to our hyper-critical self-scrutiny. But, just remember, you are a beautiful girl and you are worthy of anyone's love. Any guy who can see you for who you are and appreciate that will NOT care if your boobies are two different sizes. I promise

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* need help and support - something i've never told anyone about ever
jaime g
03/07/06 09:39 AM
* The SWEETEST thing I saw on a kids' show this morning, all of you need to read this
ecmmbm
03/09/06 04:53 AM
* Re: thoughts and padded bras
K2
03/08/06 02:45 PM
* thoughts from someone who knows how it feels.....
Lyndsey
03/08/06 08:58 AM
* Re: Funny about padded bra's
michele
03/08/06 10:27 AM
* that is kinda funny michelle -nt-
Lyndsey
03/08/06 03:48 PM
* Jaime
retrograde
03/07/06 11:29 PM
* Re: Jaime
michele
03/08/06 08:04 AM
* Re: need help and support - something i've never told anyone about ever
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03/07/06 06:26 PM
* You might want to try "Benefil", Of course I found out about this....
Johnny T. Reb
03/07/06 06:18 PM
* Jaime! I would love to e-mail with you about this...
Snow for Sarala
03/07/06 05:17 PM
* You are just right the way you are.
hohoyumyum
03/07/06 04:28 PM
* Hi Jamie
AmandaM
03/07/06 02:13 PM
* Jaime
Sara-Sage
03/07/06 02:02 PM
* Re: need help and support - something i've never told anyone about ever
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03/07/06 01:13 PM
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Dr. Spice Yamin
03/07/06 12:35 PM
* I don't know if any of this will help, but...
atomic rose
03/07/06 12:27 PM
* One more thing...
atomic rose
03/07/06 12:48 PM
* that is a great site! thanks Casey! -nt-
retrograde
03/07/06 11:33 PM
* this is a fantastic site! -nt-
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03/07/06 01:29 PM
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03/07/06 11:17 AM
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03/07/06 11:14 AM
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03/07/06 10:42 AM
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