Jaime, I think it's important you talk to your gynecologist about this and I'm glad you're finally asking for some support.
While I don't have your exact problem, I do have a long scar on my chest from open heart surgery. I've had it since I was a child, so I'm used to it, but in PE classes in middle and high school I could see the other girls staring and hear them gasp. This may seem strange, but to me the scar is beautiful - but it's my scar, so it holds meaning for me. Still, because of how girls reacted to it, I'd make sure to tell my boyfriends about it. Advance warning, I guess. Anyway, in college, when I had my first serious boyfriend, I told him about it. To my surprise, he thought it was sexy. Now that I look back on it, I think maybe it was my attitude and confidence in myself that made it sexy. Your breasts may be uneven and not the "norm" but I think if you're open about it in a relationship and with a guy who really likes you, it shouldn't be a big deal. There's more to "sexy" than you think. Jaime, from what you write here, I know you're brilliant, and from your pic I can see that you're beautiful and sweet too - and that's sexy!
I hope your gyno appointment goes well. You'll keep us updated, right?
I'm sending you lots of hugs!
Edited by Maria! Maria! (03/07/06 01:29 PM)
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