I don't what what's true and what;s not here. But hubby and I planned to have kids. We talked about it before marriage. I agree...SO important to do!
And you know what? It didn't work out. I take class D (I think?) drugs and I can't go off them (well....I feel it would be a danger to me to do so!) and so hubby and I will not be having kids in the near future.
And adopting is a problem atm as well.
But hubby loves me. And he doesn't care. He just wants me to be happy.