I'm sorry this is all so difficult for you. Anyone would be overwhelmed with all this. I know I get really down with all my diagnosis. I often wonder how one person can get so lucky! 
Please take all our hugs for some comfort, sweetie. Are you sure you can't physically have children? I didn't think either of these diagnosis meant you couldn't have kids. But like Bev said, it smart that you realize now is not the time for kids. You need to care for Ruchie first.
I know it stinks not to be able to have kids. I struggle with this everyday, sweetie. It's not fair...bottom line!
But, as Bev said again, so wisely, it is possible to be happy without kids. My coworker cannot have children and she is sincerely happy and content. She has come to peace with it and has made fullilling life with her husband. And, as Michelle said too, we must allow ourselves to grieve the loss of the life we envisioned for ourselves before we can move on and accept the life we were given.
I don't know if this made you feel any better....but you are not alone! There are others, like moi, who have had similiar fears and sadness about all this.
How are you doing today? One more day until your therapy session.
we all love you, tons!
Big hugs...tons of hugs for you!
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~ Beth
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