Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
Sweetie, my heart goes out to you. It IS a lot for a girl to swallow, I agree. I thought I had IC at one point, and went to the Urologist for an exam; thankfully, I do not have it.
You are very wise to realize you are too sick to care for a child right now, you have to care for YOU. Smart girl.
Ruchie, Don and I have lived a very happy married life for 39 years without children. It CAN be done. Of course, I do tend to throw myself into my knitting and kayaking, but that's okay too.
Please go to that class tomorrow and try to put your pain out of your mind. I think getting your mind focused on something else besides the pain is a good idea.