Just a mental image of an ex stomping out a flaming bag of pooh always makes me feel better. I hope that doesn't offend anyone. I've been left hanging too. I think almost all of us have. And I also had been with someone I thought was the one. But when I met my husband, I knew he was the one. Never gave it a second thought. From the moment I met him. He says that we always loved each other and just didn't remember it until we met. You'll find it. In the meantime, there's always the flaming bag. I heard a story about 2 monks who lived together and had each taken a vow of silence from sunrise to sunset and had vowed to never associate with women. One day the two are walking near a river and they come across a woman drowning. The first monk goes out to her, pulls her from the water and asks if she is okay. After sunset the second monk asks the first why he had broken their only two vows. The first monk replies "Yes, I picked her up and carried her. And then I set her down and walked away. You have been carrying her around all day." You can set your ex down and leave him there. You don't have to carry people around with you. I believe there is a reason for everything and that sometimes those reasons aren't revealed to us until later. If you aren't together then you're not supposed to be. Something better will come to you. Instead of looking behind for your ex, look forward at what is to come. Best wishes.
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Re: Tips for getting through a break up?
