Sorry to hear about all this. I, too, and in the midst of a relationship meltdown and it's killing me. I have been with my BF for a year and a half and things have just disintegrated into a really sad state.
Here's the advice I gave to myself to get me through: stay strong and reaffirm to yourself that you don't need him to be a whole person. You need someone who will ADD to you, not TAKE from you. You have made it thus far just fine and will be able to pick yourself up, dust off and get back on with your life. Learn from your mistakes and learn about what to avoid in the future. Don't rush in and fall in love..take time to get to know someone again so you can avoid looking at him a year later thinking "wow..if I'd only known"
Lastly, crying is a good release. But just think, he's not sitting around moping and crying over you! Screw him! Show him you're not going to crumble just b/c he's not interested in how you feel. Show him that you are one kickass, strong gal who can take care of herself AND be happy, thank you very much!
I know, easier said than done, but I gotta tell myself it's better to be happy and single than to be in a miserable relationship.
I hope you're feeling better today! Feel free to email me if you want..misery loves company and all
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