I agree, I probably wouldn't go with the gyno she recommended either! Do you have any female friends where you are living now? I know it may sound like a funny thing to ask but most women will understand if you say to them that your new to the area and ask them who they go to for obgyn. If your not comfortable with that or don't know anyone well enough to ask them, call around to a couple offices close by and talk with the front desk girls and see if you get a good vibe. Here in the states, all the dr's I've been too are pretty strict about the once a year pap, especially if your on the pill.
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....