Re: I don't mean to be a downer on these happy boards....
10/28/05 10:27 AM
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Lyndsey
Reged: 02/16/05
Posts: 581
Loc: Bay Area, CA
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my friend just had a 3rd miscar in like 4 months, she is having a hard time too, the docs said slow down, it puts your body in alot of stress when your are preg and especially if you lose it...she was almost 7 weeks, and she was really really upset, i felt really bad for her too....i can understand i'm 8 weeks right now.
i hope this isn't offensive, but i am going to say when people say god only gives you things you can handle...i don't believe that one bit..sometimes things just suck....and there is no reason for it....and the loss or the pain or hurt whatever happens....isn't anything to do with a higher being....life gives you stupid turns for no reason...i mean i'm not very religous...i use to be...but i'm not anymore (personal chioce, like i said i hope that doens't get anyone too crazy on me!!) but things happen and it shouldn't....but you find a new light, and then life turns better...for the most life is what you make it (not speaking on the miscar. i'm talking about in general)...so when i get down, and i get down alot...or i'm really happy...maybe i'm bi-polar who knows...lol....i try to do something to get myself back up, paint something, do some craft, make jewlery, you know? an outlet....or talk to a friend...or just cry for a little bit...
i hope you do better though....i know the first few days or weeks is rough....my friend is still really upset....i completely feel for her too...i cried...it touches all moms of course....
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