First of all, let me congratulate you on your pregnancy! Since I'm a newbie, I didn't know. I wish you a very safe and happy and healthy pregnancy.
Now...for your mother. I'm sorry you've had to endure so much pain. If it was me, I wouldn't go. You're entering a new stage of your life. You shouldn't have to feel hurt or sad (and it's not worth risking your health!). I know you feel you have a responsibilty to her, but you don't. I went through a similar situation with my grandmother. I always try to find the good in people, but she was an evil person. There's no way around that. She passed away several years ago, but the hurt still lingers. I know it's going to be hard, but I know you have the strength to do it.
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