Re: Major Anxiety
07/30/05 02:51 PM
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Vicam
Reged: 02/24/04
Posts: 1955
Loc: Ontario, Canada
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Hey Steph,
I completely understand where you're coming from. I have the same problem with my Dad, he asks me to do things totally last minute and guilt trips me like crazy if I can't go. I have problems not so much because of my tummy right now, but because I'm on a lot of heavy-duty sedatives to try and control my panic attacks and so I can't drive, and he lives in a different city. That's never good enough...I'm always feeling like a disappointment. And my bf is the same as Adrian, always telling me not to go and just to say no and take care of myself.
I don't know what it is, but like you, I have the hardest time saying no and always wish that I could just get a supportive "no problem, see you another time" or something. Wish I had better advice for you (or any advice) but so far I haven't quite figured out how to deal with things either  Just wanted to let you know I understand 
Hang in there, hope your tummy feels better soon
Kelly
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