And he couldn't believe the guy was part of the community...even with the differing customs, it is totaly inappropriate!
He told me to write the guy a letter and he would touch it up for me to mail to the guy at the store.
If I could muster up the courage, I should simply tell him "I'm married, and there are boundaries. Saying helle with a smile is one thing, and neccesary talk another. Please do not call me unless necessary and if it can be discussed with my husband, that is best. Thank you."
I wish I weren't too chicken to stand up for myself!
But yes, even my Rabbi thinks this guy recognizes my vulnerabilities and is playing on them. SO UNCOOL!
I am so tired of living here
Thanks for all your help/advice/support everyone *hugs*
I hope one day I feel safe...and can stand up for myself, please G-d!!