Re: fantasizing...it's not me either! I'm glad I'm not the only one. I mean, sure daydreams here and there, but not REAL fantasies involving objects and clothing, etc. I feel awkward just THINKING about it! And being on display that way. I think I have inherited my Dad's "prudishness", if you will. My husband has said "Don't you have any fantasies?" and I say "No, I don't need them I have you!" Ha ha. Well, I'm sorry your birthday is a bummer. Your guy will get over his hurt pride and things will be ok. At the very least...a learning experience, no?