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Hiya,

It sounds like you and I have gone through something really similar. My "ex friend" did a lot of the same thing, holding all this insane stuff against me when the irony was that over the years, she has continuously been an AWFUL friend and yet she was holding really weird thing (some of which never even happened) against me. It's funny how people can do all these horrible things and then convince themselves they are justified in playing the victim.

I am also the same in that I don't miss her. In fact, as soon as she and I stopped hanging out and I didn't have to worry about her getting mad at me all the time, etc etc I felt a lot better, like a big weight had been lifted. The thing that bothers me is that it is making life with my _other_ friends awkward. Until this business of sleeping with her ex boyfriend, my other friend isn't usually like that.. so I was pretty p!ssed that I was losing her too just because of this other girl.

Anyway, sorry to ramble again. Thanks for the reply, glad to hear I am not alone in this but sorry to hear tht it had to happen to you too!!

--Steph

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