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In the past year, I have lost two "close" friends, one of whom was my maid of honor!!! She married a jerk she didn't really love, moved to CA with him, was miserable, complained about him all the time (he said/did awful things), said she was going to leave him, over and over, finally was coming home...and oh, look, he's coming with her and she realized how wonderful he really is. And I questioned her motives, and that was that. The other friend, I've known for quite a while, and was one of the last of my group to try to be friends becuase she distanced herself when she met her fiance. When I asked her one night why she wasn't coming to my birthday party she pretty much exploded on me all these things she's been holding against me I didn't know about. One stupid example: her fiance offered me nachos one night and I refused and gave him a dirty look. Yes, THIS is the kind of stuff she was holding against me!!
At first, I wondered what was wrong with me that I was losing friends, but my other very close friends told me just to think of it as "spring cleaning"!!! To be honest, I don't miss them (the "real" friendship had ended long before) and I'm glad to be rid of the drama!!!

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