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Hi guys,
I just need to vent a little bit about these ridiculous girls.. I feel like I am stuck in high school sometimes with stuff like this, and even though it shouldn't bother me it totally does.
I don't know if anyone remembers, but a few months ago my best friend that I've known since I was like 8 and I "broke up" and it was really hard on me. The letter she sent me was pretty harsh, and when I think about it now it still makes me angry and upset.
Then the same girl screwed over my OTHER friend (the one I went to England with) by dating a guy that my friend was interested in, starting on the same night that she has given my friend the "go ahead" to pursue him.
Okay, so then my friend is mad at her but they end up making up and everything is peachy keen again.
So then this girl that I went to England with and I go out together on the weekend to a birthday party at the bar. She didn't know a ton of people there, so I stuck around her most of the night even though there were loads of people I could have talked to. She tells me that the weekend before, she went camping and SLEPT with my "ex friend's" ex-boyfriend. I won't go in to all the gory details but this relationship screwed up my "ex friend" for AGES (it's one of the reasons she was so messed up and bitter and awful) after he cheated on her over and over again. With dirty girls, no less.
So right, my friend sleeps with him. Without protection. Even though she KNEW he was dirty. So she has to come home, take the morning after pill AND go and get tested for STDs. WHAT AN IDIOT! So she says she isn't gonna tell my "ex friend" what happened.
At the end of the night my "ex friend" shows up, and I said something like, "Oh no, she's here" and my friend shrugs and goes, "Well, she's MY friend" and I was like "Right..." Some friendship!
So Adrian and I go outside when everyone is being kicked out and wait outside for my friend since we are supposed to go home together. We are freezing are butts off, waiting around forever and my friend comes strolling out with my "ex friend" and this other girl, walks right past me and doesn't even say goodbye. I called, "Bye?" after her and she was like, "Oh, bye" and doesn't even bother to explain that she is going out with these other girls instead!

I just don't understand!! I am so frustrated, I am losing my friends and I can't get why. I said to Adrian was I was really angry, "So she's <censored> her, and she's <censored> her and I haven't done anything to either of these b!tches and yet, _I_ am the one who is being ditched and stuff!"

Gah!! It just makes me so mad! I mean, after all the stuff they have done I am not exactly thrilled to have them as best friends but the places the loyalties lie just makes my head spin.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant!
--Steph

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