What an awful, awful thing to do. Just infuriating. I totally feel for you 'cause I've been through the exact same thing, and I agree with what everyone else has said. I think you were totally right to tell her to take hike, there is no need to keep high-on-their-horse people like that around in your like. How completely insulting to both you, Tommy and your relationship. It is really disrespectful and you're right, she should be totally ashamed of herself. I hope you can get over the way she has hurt you, but not take anything to heart because you know what really happened, we know what really happened AND she has obviously proved how much of a "friend" she really is.
I'm so sorry that this happened to you, and to Tommy as well as he is obviously upset by this as well. You guys are great people as individuals, and such a lovely couple.. you'll pull through this and bid farewell to people who don't want the very best for you.
**hugs** --Steph
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