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I figured someone would bring it up sooner or later though. Well I guess this is what I get for being way to happy and excited about something.

So here's the deal. Things were going so well and he seemed so great and was REALLY into me. He'd call me just to say goodnight and I'd text messages from him during the day from work and just all those nice little thoughtful things. Well then 2 weeks ago that just all kind of stops and I knew he was really busy since he'd picked up more shifts at the hospital and was working like 8-8 during a day..but still. Then I'd called him and he didn't call back.

And I'd told myself that this was just going to be a fun thing and if it didn't work out that I wouldn't care because I just kinda could tell that he clearly wasn't going to be the kind of person I should spend the rest of my life with or anything..but we still had a really good time together and that was fine enough. So then when he started getting distant I decided that I'd not contact him again unless he initiated. Well then 2 days later he texts me like everything is cool. Then again nothing and I resume to getting over it, and then he texts me again a few days later. Being the sensitive person I am, I of course can't help but take all of this personally and think that I'm not good enough or who knows what. So then Sunday rolls around and I decided I wanted to know what the deal was...so I tell him that I feel as though he's avoiding me like the plague and I just want to know what the deal is...and he says that he's sorry and that he has just been really busy. That's a bunch of crap if you ask me because he didn't have a hard time in the beginning despite being really busy. So now that was almost a week ago and that was the last I've heard from him.

I just don't understand cause he was so into me and I was really enjoying the whole "someone thinks I'm incredibly beautiful" thing and likes me for me. I don't get it. I decided today though that I'm putting my foot down and that he really owes me an explanation. I mean, did he meet someone else or is he just all of a sudden not interested? What's the DEAL?! I just know that someday the man will come along that will love every bit of me and I guess I'll be twiddling my thumbs waiting for him

So that's my story. I'll let you know if I get any response from the jerk. Now I need to find myself a new date to this wedding I have to go to in August..

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