I'd second (or third or fourteenth... lol) what others have said here: one, no need to be embarassed at all! And two, you probably need to spend some good 'alone time'.
Really, you kind of need to 'teach yourself' to have an orgasm - it may sound a little weird, but take a few hours to yourself - bathtub or bed or wherever, candles, lock the doors, turn off the phones etc... You can get so relaxed that you aren't worried about whether you'll come or not, or about all those other things we tend to worry about during sex (but really shouldn't!!!) You can also 'feel yourself out' so to speak... try a million different things and get to know what feels good, what doesn't feel so good, and what feels down right GREAT  I honestly believe that masturbation is the key to having really great sex - so it makes me so sad to hear that so many women don't do it!  And now with so many places to buy toys and stuff on the internet, there's no stress at all about walking into a sex shop and maybe being seen by someone you know, etc... just order one online and it'll come in an unmarked package. Just a peice of plastic (and hours of solo entertainment... plus vibrators are a GREAT accessory for partner sex too).
OK I'm done rambling for now. I hope this helps some - and helps you to feel less embarassed about all this. Really, there's no need to feel embarassed - so many women are in the same place as you. Embracing your sexuality and all that will only help you find pleasure in all the right ways... lol Ok ok I'm done...
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