Reged: 11/14/04
Posts: 1530
Loc: Canberra, Australia
If you're too embarrassed to DIY have you tried experimenting with DH? Get some inspiration from the net or books and get HIM to try doing all sorts of things. I'm not one for "toys" either, but have you tried umm, stimulating yourself in the upper half during sex? I can't ummm "have one" unless this is happening Most women can't orgasm on sex alone so don't be embarrassed. (((((hugs))))))) Hope this has been at least a little helpful. On the IBS front, I find if I'm in pain or not feeling 100% sex can make cause me pain, or sometimes if I'm feeling like rubbish or worried about gas the psychological things going on in my head can prevent orgasm from happening.
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Patricia....
Most women can't orgasm on sex alone so don't be embarrassed. (((((hugs))))))) Hope this has been at least a little helpful.
